Anonymous asked: I'm literally falling for my closest friend. I know she has feelings for me, and she knows I have feelings for her. We've both talked about it, but I'm really confused as to what to do. We already act closer than just 'best friends' but don't know what will happen to our friendship.
Sincerely, Confused
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do whatever feels right. If you feel the same way, it’d be worht giving it a go …just see what happens!
hope this helps, from Chloe
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Anonymous asked: Hiyyya Chloe.
I'm really worried, this is going to sound stange but I have this stalker like seriously. This guy got me a teddy and stuff for valentines last year. I know, I know, a lot of girls will be dying to get stuff for valentines but this guy is like ew and I've never even spoke to him properly and he actually stalks me and he gave it to me in school infront of everyone and it was horrible. It was so embarassing, I just wanted to cry the whole day, It was my birthday aswell. People probably wonder what the problem is but i cant stand being center of atention or being talked about, its horribe, i dont understand how some people want to be the talk of the school and are so attention seeking. Anyway I've been trying to get people ot get him off my back but im scared he will do it again this year, it was so humiliating and he creeps me out. It makes me feel sick.
Thank you so much, its such an nice thing you do for people on this.
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you should just accept it, there are worse things! have you actually told him to stop? try doing that and tell him your not interested …he’ll soon get the message
From Chloe
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oh and thanks :D
Anonymous asked: dear chloe,
i think i'm bisexual. not in the sense of wanting to be in relationships with girls, just the sexual side (and that might make me sound incredibly shallow. i'm not; i'm completely different when it comes to boys). i just don't know how to tell people. a lot of things have happened to me in the past and there are a few people who'll do anything to hurt me, so i'm scared that if i tell people about my sexuality, rumours will get around and i'll lose friends - i'm afraid that some of my closest friends will drift away from me, because they're scared i'll come onto them, when i won't at all. i've only told one person. she didn't think much of it though, as she's a lesbian herself; she thinks it's great xD i'm most worried about my family finding out (my dad's very religious and doesn't approve of homosexuality), and the guy i have feelings for might think it's a bit strange, but i don't know.
what should i do? x
teenagers are often confused about their sexuality so dont worry about it. If you trust your close friends, tell them. If they’re there for you they should understand. see if you can ask for advice off this girl you’ve talked to as she problem had to speka to people herself.
your parents should support you whatever happens.
from chloe
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Anonymous asked: Dear Chloe,
One of my family friends likes me. I got told by my parents which is slightly awkward. I really dont like him. Don't get me wrong, he's incredibly sweet, juts not the guy I like. Anyway, how do I let him know subtly that I dont like him? He doesnt even know that I know :/ I don't want to ruin our friendship.
Confused x
same person?
Just don’t respond to him atall maybe?. or, be kind to him but not in a flritasious way?
from chloe
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Anonymous asked: Dear Chloe,
there's this boy i've been talking to recently, a friend of a friend. and we've been getting along really well. On friday we're meeting up and we plan to do lots of 'stuff'. Don't get me wrong, I'm really excited about it, it's just I've got thrush and I'm a bit worried what if he tries to finger me or lick me out.
It's really embarressing and cringy, i just didn't know who else to ask.
From Embarressed xx
do whatever you feel comfortable with. If you feel you’ll be uncomfortable with having thrush, reschedule it for another time? explain, if he’s a gooden he’ll understand
From Chloe
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Anonymous asked: I think i might be bi, but i have a boyfriend who i love a lot but i really like this girl i've been talking to, i don't know what to do whether i should risk our relationship to find out if i am or whether to just forget about it... i'm so confused :/ hope you can help. i love this page by the way its so cute xoxo
I don’t think you should make any hasty decisions about leaving your boyfriend. If you love him, you won’t want to put him through all the pain. If you feel you’re bi, talk to someone …It doesn’t mean you should leave your boyfriend for this girl. However, if this is what you want to do then do whatever you want, your boyfriends should understand. Also remember sexuality is something most teenagers are confused about, it could be a passing phase.
hope this helps
from Chloe
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